haven blogged for a long long time... haha, just gg to post some random thoughts, before reading can set encoding to unicode because there're a few chinese characters that i've typed... haha...

1) its amazing how u can feel so comfortable and included talking with people you hav just met or seldom hav e chance to talk to, and sometimes feel so uncomfortable and excluded talking with the clique that you stay with everyday O_O

2)i'm kind of getting abit sick of uni life...

3)i'm so glad that i hav my mom out of all the moms in the world... haha... we can talk abt almost anything under e sun... so many things to learn from her and her experiences and observations... my mom's an observant person but she tends to give pple e feeling that she's blur... haha! in fact she's rather blur as well... i'm getting abit of e senile genes from her, forgeting things and forgeting who i told sth to... yan ru got the full blast of my senile disease... haha

4)sometimes when it comes to e topic of marriage, somehow i hav a feeling that i won be getting married next time, or rather i cant imagine myself getting married. when i went for e korea trip, this couple ate with us a few times, and the guy's young girlfren displayed e role of a wife v well despite still looking v trendy and hip... help him jia2 cai4, yao3 tang1, basically just v ti3 tie1... i seriously don think i can do that, i'm more of born to be served than born to serve... haha! and if i ever do get married e other half must be v tolerant as well... i cant cook i don like to do chores i'm lazy i need to sleep alot i cant be woken up by an alarm clock, etc. this paragraph is getting long, pls continue to the next paragraph.

basically we face a dilemma. humans are beings that just cant be satisfied 90% of e time. to marry or not to marry. if you marry, there are lots of problems tt will arise. there's 1001 cases of couples splitting just because of disagreements in housing, in how to settle down with the in laws, in $$ matters, etc. haven even get married then split alr... tt shows how vulnerable human relationships are... haha... not tt i'm being skeptical, bud tt does happen to quite a number of pple that i know... and marriage needs 101% of tolerance... i don't know if i can do that... haha... i haven tested my tolerance ability. this very famous reporter and host from taiwan 尹乃菁 once said a sentence that i'm so totally in agreement with, it goes sth like "一对夫妻要相处和面对彼此几十年, 那真是考验个人的耐力和修养" haha.. tts so true, and there are 1001 problems tt will come with marriage, sooner or later, or even some unexpected ones... so its seems like marriage is not so good, bud again living alone without another half is lonely and sad, and this is especially so when you reach e marrying age when all your frens seem to be getting married, and then if we are not married by then we will be v sian and depressed... haha... bud its all up to fate to decide, or we make the choice, choosing either we still got to sacrifice alot of things...

next, not tt i'm being biased or discriminative again, bud seriously i think wat i'm gg to list below are all facts that are 90% of e time true.
-90% of guys fall for v feng1 sao1, aa, or noisy girls

-90% of guys cant reject another girl's affection, if the girl zhu3 dong4, even though they've gotten a wife or a gf. why, because its onli natural tt the guy is happy because he feel that he still got e charm. of course this other girl cannot be the kind he dislike.

-the better guys are 99% of e time taken

-guys can be so que1 de2 sometimes, with the words tt come out of their mouths. once a guy behind me said in a sarcastic tone that "oh, hossan leong lai2 liao", when e lecturer came in. come on, i don think he has e right to say tt, he's not even good looking for goodness sake... and e lecturer is a much better person than he is, that mouth of his deserved to be spanked.

-guys can be so much more can2 ren3 than girls if they ever decide to ostracise another guy

-most guys are so influenced by peer pressure that they cant make their own decisions sometimes.

with the above listed points, its seems like its not easy to marry someone and live tgt for a long time. haha!!

okie, these are just some random thoughts, doesn't mean that i'm a 单身主义者... because there are lots of couples tt are living harmoniously and are happy tt they found each other. heh..

5)i hav a life long goal which is to be able to earn alot of money so tt i can pay for anything i need and want. and travelling needs alot money as well... haha... so many places i want to visit...

okie a rather long entry, i shall end here alr...

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